Perceptible layers of friendship, or when only adults are capable of play

Often­ti­mes it is assu­med that youthful playful­ness is lost in transition

lost in translation

as we maneu­ver from one age cate­go­ry to another

being disci­pli­ned to play, in cer­tain spaces and within cer­tain time slots,

what does it mean to play [in high school] – what does it mean to play [on a film set]

Thea­ter play? Amu­se­ment, enter­tain­ment? Lati­tu­de, ran­ge? Have fun? Com­pe­te in sport? Act; take the part of? Gam­ble, risk? Pro­du­ce music?

Defi­ni­ti­ons too reduc­ti­ve. Yet they all apply. 

During last week, I went to the Open Stu­di­os at the Jan van Eyck Aca­de­mie, and I was lucky enough to see a good film about the important sub­ject of kids and how we force them to play.

Fli­cker like Fla­mes [sket­ches towards a spe­cu­la­ti­ve film] is a film by the Bri­tish artist Sol Archer, who, during his peri­od in Rot­ter­dam, tried to make a film with kids from a local high school. They recor­ded ever­y­thing them­sel­ves. Here’s to the Future is a film by the Ame­ri­can fil­mer and wri­ter Gina Tel­a­ro­li. A film made with and by fri­ends on a sun­ny Sunday.

The group of child­ren don’t know cine­ma. Most of them will beco­me craft­smen. Or might beco­me drug dea­lers. But befo­re that, they are still per­mit­ted to ree­nact mas­cu­li­ne stan­dards by means of rema­king sce­nes from Game of Thro­nes or Furious 7. Now, they do this tog­e­ther and they have fun in doing so. You see them laug­hing, making jokes. Working as a team, as class­ma­tes, in order to reach their ‘’goals.’’ They play, that is sure. But are they, in their con­text, capa­ble of play­ing freely?

film setFli­cker like Fla­mes [sket­ches towards a spe­cu­la­ti­ve film] (Sol Archer, 2017)

For Telaroli’s film, she invi­ted all sorts of fri­ends to par­ti­ci­pa­te in its pro­duc­tion. Artists, cri­tics, all sorts of peop­le. Most of them hap­pen to be ‘’experts’’ on cine­ma. Yet this film is as ‘’mes­sy’’ as the one made by the high school kids. They try to do ever­y­thing in order to not reach any­thing. My mom remark­ed: ‘’I can’t bear wat­ching this, is this even a film?’’ She took hers­elf to bed.

Does true play demand true work? If our mothers can’t even ima­gi­ne this, I don’t want to think about all the play/​work that’s still lying ahead of us. All the play that still needs to be done. To be dealt with. Peo­p­le always say that ‘’we as adults ine­vi­ta­b­ly need to deal with doing the work and not­hing but the work its­elf’’ but per­haps this is not work but play. What then is this? Do I have any clue of what goes through my body when I think of ‘’play’’?

flmset2 Fli­cker like Fla­mes [sket­ches towards a spe­cu­la­ti­ve film] (Sol Archer, 2017)

As was said by Tho­mas Hen­ricks’ in his essay The Natu­re of Play: An Over­view:

‘’First published in 1938, Huizinga’s work [Homo Ludens: A Stu­dy of the Play-Ele­ment in Cul­tu­re] focu­ses both on the natu­re of play and on its chan­ging signi­fi­can­ce in Euro­pean socie­ties from the clas­si­cal peri­od to modern times. The best known ele­ment of Homo Ludens is Huizinga’s state­ment of five defi­ning cha­rac­te­ristics of play. First, play is a rela­tively free or vol­un­t­a­ry acti­vi­ty in which peo­p­le set the terms and timing of their own invol­vement. Second, play is distin­gu­is­hed from rou­ti­ne affairs by its absence of mate­ri­al con­se­quen­ces. Third, play is sepa­ra­ted from other acti­vi­ties by its use of exo­tic rules, play­ing spaces, ide­as of time, cos­tu­mes, and equip­ment. Fourth, play is mark­ed by the way in which it both honors rules and yet encou­ra­ges trans­gres­si­on and dis­or­der. And fifth, play pro­mo­tes the ban­ding tog­e­ther of par­ti­ci­pan­ts in “secret” or other­wi­se out­lan­dish socie­ties.

Here’s to the Future is very true, and for many of us, con­fron­ta­tio­nal. Pre­cis­e­ly becau­se it is ticking all the boxes of what is out­lined abo­ve. To me it trans­po­sed the idea that very pos­si­bly, we should not try to ‘’re-dis­co­ver playful­ness’’ again. But rather: to invent it for the very first time. We see the film and we feel that we’ve been tricking our­sel­ves. That the­re is not­hing to retrie­ve. Groun­ded in the belief that a film set can ser­ve as a secluded place in which we make time to streng­then our bonds. To make fri­ends but par­ti­cu­lar­ly to make fri­end­ships bet­ter by allo­wing each other to do some­thing with our anxie­ties, safe­ly. Is this also a form of play­ing with fire?

Later on, Hen­ricks continues:

‘’Alt­hough Hui­zin­ga was com­mit­ted to the idea of playful­ness as a spi­rit or ori­en­ta­ti­on within socie­ties, he also empha­si­zed that tho­se same socie­ties his­to­ri­cal­ly have main­tai­ned frameworks—sometimes invol­ving careful­ly pro­tec­ted times and spaces—to encou­ra­ge playful beha­vi­ors. Cle­ar­ly, such is the case with “games,” which are cul­tu­ral for­mats that help peo­p­le inter­act in defi­ned ways and ensu­re the con­ti­nui­ty of play across time and space. Socio­lo­gist Erving Goff­man (1974) cal­led the­se models for beha­vi­or “frames.” In that sen­se, play (as oppo­sed to work, reli­gious ritu­al, “real” fights, etc.) is a broad cul­tu­ral are­na whe­re peo­p­le learn to reco­gni­ze, anti­ci­pa­te, and ori­ent them­sel­ves. And the­re are more spe­ci­fic kinds of play—jokes, day­d­reams, contests—that we also under­stand. We “play” when we par­ti­ci­pa­te in the­se cul­tu­ral forms.’’

Thus I noti­ced that one group of film­ma­kers (the high school kids from Rot­ter­dam) is func­tio­ning much more within a frame that is sup­po­sedly deter­mi­ned to ‘’teach them some­thing.’’ Whe­re­as the second (the film enthu­si­asts) are much more wil­ling to ‘’learn some­thing’’, coll­ec­tively. In spi­te of not nee­ding to be on Telaroli’s set, while all the kids do need to par­ta­ke in Archer’s shoot. So who’s real­ly, radi­cal­ly, playing?

‘’As the last para­graph of Homo Ludens some­what rueful­ly puts it, play in the final ana­ly­sis “lies out­side morals” and “in its­elf is neither good nor bad.” Play pur­sues neither truth nor jus­ti­ce but is ins­tead a fun­da­men­tal­ly aes­the­tic endea­vor, a set of prac­ti­ces that explo­re the mea­nings of expe­ri­ence in a wide ran­ge of sce­nes and settings.’’

And this was pre­cis­e­ly what inte­res­ted me about the­se two films. Archer expo­sing education’s neces­sa­ry evil: cloa­ked as ‘’play,’’ young ado­le­s­cents are slow­ly being taught to inde­ed judge and to inde­ed, learn how to act in a shal­low resem­blan­ce of socie­ty. It is important that many of the ‘’frames’’ or ‘’games’’ that are estab­lished and play­ed also expand bey­ond the schoo­ly­ard. Tel­a­ro­li, on the other hand, gets rid of the­se important rest­ric­tions and makes thinkable and sen­si­ble a first expo­sure to play in adult­hood, per­haps also in life as a who­le. Or is it safe to say: ‘’fun’’?

Both of the­se films, at points, pro­vi­de hints of having fun. Now, it’s about time to inject a third play­er: Helen Hill’s The World’s Smal­lest Fair (1995). Not only is this unex­pec­ted visi­tor crus­hing many of the rela­ti­ons that were set and deve­lo­ped by the other two films, but fore­most she is no lon­ger con­cer­ned with ratio­na­li­ty. As Soder­bergh wro­te when he pos­ted his cut of 2001: A Space Odys­sey; The Return of W. De Rijk: ‘’some­ti­mes you have to cross the line to know whe­re the line is. just ask any two-year-old.’’

In Hill’s film, she and her class­ma­tes from Cal­Arts ‘’crea­te one squa­re mile of cot­ton can­dy in fan­ta­sti­cal shapes.» And in this squa­re mile, sounds are recor­ded and images are taken which were utte­red in a secluded peri­od of time. I did ask: if they are real­ly play­ing, why then are they loo­king for the­se boun­da­ries? Is it not a tool in order te retrie­ve the sani­ty requi­red to keep going out­side of this par­ti­cu­lar squa­re? Is it not a mere­ly func­tion­al way of appro­pria­ting our ide­as of ‘’having fun’’? Just as func­tion­al as the kids from high school? My con­vic­tion is: no. The ‘’just as’’ I employ­ed is ris­ky, sin­ce it tri­es to level the­se two inher­ent­ly dif­fe­rent endea­vors. Limi­ting both their distinct­ly alter­na­ting affects and effects.


smallestfairr2The World’s Smal­lest Fair (Helen Hill, 1995)

I do need to add that Hill’s film evo­kes a simi­lar respon­se among flocks of peo­p­le: name­ly, that of the assump­ti­on that this is not a film, or can­not be taken serious­ly as a film, becau­se the cha­rac­ters invol­ved do not seem to be taking it serious­ly them­sel­ves. But who says this is so? To estab­lish a sen­se of com­mu­ni­tas, »the sen­se of sha­ring and inti­ma­cy that deve­lo­ps among per­sons who expe­ri­ence limi­na­li­ty as a group», a lot of sacri­fices are deman­ded from each of the indi­vi­du­als who agree to par­ti­ci­pa­te. The inten­si­ty with which I see the – here it comes – art stu­dents inter­act with each other in this film, must have been quite exhaus­ti­ve. Now, the fact that their invol­vement is expli­cit­ly men­tio­ned in Hiller’s descrip­ti­on of the film, is not making it easier for the skep­tics to open up. Anyhow: peo­p­le who live in glass hou­ses should not throw stones, so I’d bet­ter rest my case.

What all the­se films pre­sent, are dif­fe­rent con­cep­ti­ons and exe­cu­ti­ons of what we see as play and fun. But to redu­ce them sole­ly as devices to get some­thing done or to reach a dif­fe­rent point, is ine­s­ca­pa­ble. Espe­ci­al­ly in cine­ma, whe­re we are almost always exis­ting in rela­ti­on to how peo­p­le around us spend their time, it is excep­tio­nal­ly dar­ing to try to break with this habit. We are all pos­si­bly lonely, and to move away from our­sel­ves we need to act in accordance to others. What some of the­se do signi­fy, lucki­ly, is that we do not need, a prio­ri, to deter­mi­ne and cal­cu­la­te their out­co­mes. And I guess all three films that I tried to dis­cuss in this text make such out­co­mes, and let’s say it, func­tion, rather unpredictable.

making visible layers of friendshipHere’s to the Future (Gina Tel­a­ro­li, 2014)